Written by: James
Loving truly and deeply should be free. Wouldn’t it be wonderful to meet your future partner, fall in love, and never have to think about payment again? Unfortunately, romance can be expensive. You might have to pay bills to rent a place to live, just in case you get a job. You might have to pay for groceries and other everyday expenses, just in case you get laid off. But certainly not the cost of a dating app or the fees that come with a relationship.
It’s understandable that you might be hesitant to get involved in romance through online dating. It can be nerve-wracking to put yourself out there, confessing your dreams, hopes, and fantasies after all. What if your potential match rejects you? What if they say you’re too picky or too immature? What if they want to meet at a restaurant where they have to wait for you to come? You may have heard that fortunately, you’ll never have to worry about these pesky standards anymore. But, let’s put this off the table. There are even fewer dating profiles to fill online these days.
Why should you or your significant other endure making a payment? Letting your finances dictate your life cannot be the way to find true happiness. After all, you were finally able to buy something with your salary. Your paycheck is now high and you deserve love too. After you earn the money, why are you counting on a romantic connection and you’re still in its initial stages? It’s not just your potential significant other, but other false assumptions people have about love.
Picture this: you’re at work, and then suddenly think of someone or something that made you happy. You feel so excited to think of someone who’s been on your mind, making you feel cherished and special. Your smile brightens up the moment and your heart swells with joy. You know that fantastic feeling of falling in love. Isn’t it awesome?
Now, imagine the scene of you showing up to that place again with no one to show up for. How can you even know that romantic connection is still alive? What are you going to do after you caught your breath? That’s the moment when you realize that a little eye contact or a few pleasantries wouldn’t be a bad start, but is it too late? What about your feelings? What if your significant other already has a girlfriend or is currently in a serious relationship? What if you’ve blocked out an opportunity to ever cross paths in another life?
Maybe it’s too much to imagine, but if you take the time to allow yourself to fantasize about love finding it’s way, you may find something lovely. You could find that someone who will accept, love, and truly truly care for you. They’ll be everything you’d wanted to find years ago. That there will always be someone to love.
So, if your payment is the obstacle standing between you and true happiness, set aside your fear and maybe set a goal. Have faith in fate or experienced future relationships. Buy a writer new about dating sites. Consider them great high-quality college you’ve never seen before. Even when you need motivation, try laughing harder until you feel like you can move on, without having to waste thousands upon thousands on an expensive subscription. Let it go, and see what divine love offers you next.
Authorship: Noah Ross
Speaking: Noah Ross

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